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February 14, 2020
Stoned Sex Diary: The Couple Who Brought a Vibrator to a Talking Heads Concert

AS TOLD TO SOPHIE SAINT THOMAS

We all know cannabis and sex go together but how do real people use it in the bedroom? Meet Brandon and Maggie. The couple met in 2017 at the Emerald Cup and have been together since. Brandon’s an intellectual property attorney who specializes in cannabis and Maggie is reiki master teacher, cannabis sommelier, and mother of two. Read on for their story.

Brandon: We initially connected because we both work in and appreciate cannabis. It’s a part of our social, sexual, and professional experiences. We smoke it, attend events, prepare infused meals, and use it in the bedroom. 

Maggie: I use cannabis for stress relief, to manage the daily ups and downs that come with being a mother, and to enhance our sex life. It connects us on a deeper level — getting naked and high is one of our favorite relationship staples. We love to use it in all stages of our sex life, whether it’s a sensual massage with infused lube or finishing with a fire concentrate. 

Brandon: Physical sensations and stimulation are amplified. Who doesn’t enjoy a more powerful, cosmic, body shaking orgasm? We come up with kinky ideas and we love adding products like Foria. Cannabis gets us excited about exploring something that’s considered “sexually deviant.” Being under the influence is definitely a plus for us both in and out of the bedroom.

Maggie: One memorable time was when we went to a New Orleans-style funk band concert. After the first set we headed outside to smoke a joint and after we came back indoors, we went to a corner of the venue. No one could see us doing anything other than dancing close to each other. In reality, he had his hand up the back of my skirt with his fingers inside me. I had applied some cannabis lube before we arrived so when he massaged me, I came twice. We left the show early to go home and have more amazing sex. 

Brandon: The combination of music, cannabis, and sex really works for us. Last August, we went to Red Rocks and saw David Byrne of the Talking Heads perform. Before the show we each ate a few fruit leather edibles and it must have been 40 or 50 milligrams worth of THC. We brought our app-controlled WeVibe to the show, and I got to play vibrator DJ live to some of my favorite music. It felt like a long extended foreplay session that lasted the entire show. The sexual energy was palpable. I was having so much fun that we wore out the battery before the show ended, but Maggie was fully charged at that point. There was lots of touching and kissing at the show, and the sex we had that night cosmic on an interstellar level. 

Maggie: “This Must Be The Place,” for real! Having THC helped me feel more "in my body" during the concert and that leads to more intense pleasure. I was able to embody the sensations that were pulsing through me and my orgasms. I’ve noticed that when I don't use it I still climax but it’s not the same. Plus, we finish at the same time more frequently whenever we use cannabis.

Brandon: Intimacy with Maggie feels great whether I am or am not under the influence, but the intensity of the sensations, from touch, to energy, to orgasm, are all heightened. When I say we’re connected I really mean it — I can feel her energy when she's thousands of miles away.

Maggie: I tend to sound hostile at times because I’m a Sagittarius and I can be really blunt. It can be too much so weed helps me communicate my feelings in a non-confrontational way. It makes me more empathetic, which is especially useful for makeup sex. Through our use, we find that we’re not worried about what was said or misconstrued. It helps us come back to the purity of the love we have for each other.

Brandon: Cannabis often makes my orgasm feel more intense — it’s a full body experience. I can feel a wave of warmth slide over my body when it hits and everything I’m doing changes. Like once we were in Las Vegas for a romantic staycation and we had shared some edibles and a joint before dinner. The energy between us throughout the meal was incredibly sexually charged — we split two desserts before paying the bill and giddily running out the door. By the time we made it to our room, we didn’t even make it to bed.

Want more Stoned Sex Diaries? Read about Daniel's experience as the owner of a high-end, invite-only adult club.

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